Thursday night was a busy night. I delivered telegrams all
day, and that night I did a telegram with Bernard and Lynn. Bernard was to be a
male ballerina, and Lynn was to be the chicken. I was to be Marilyn Monroe. It
was to be a three-fer and then we were to do the dance from Family Guy. On my way there, I was
caught in the rain and camped out and drank some tea in the Starbucks.
I still had my leopard dress on from an earlier gig, and
when it came time to perform I had my rollers in and stuff. My get up looked
more apropos for a Midwestern yard sale with my third husband and a child I
pimped out to kiddie pageants like JonBenet rather than singing telegram.
Nonetheless, we were there. Lynn and I cheered by the bar and then Barnard
came. I got into my Marilyn get up, white dress and all, and rescued the part
of my curled hair that looked like it had a stroke. Afterwards, I painted a
beauty mark on my face hoping it wouldn’t smudge.
Then off to work we went.
I was first out, and did a good Marilyn, one of the best I
have done in a while. Barnard then entered as Tina the Ballerina. Not only was
he funny, but Tina is a beautiful woman. As Bernard was performing I found
myself trying not to laugh. This was too funny! Barnard was dancing with the
birthday boy and was trying to sit on his lap. Does the House of Pancakes have
an opening? If so Tina is your girl.
Then Lynn came out, feathers and all, in her chicken suit
and began to sing “Bird is the Word.”As she sang, she incorporated the names of
the people in the table and was awesome as usual.
When we were done we took photos etc. As we were at
the bar chilling after the performance and waiting for our tip, the birthday
boys girlfriend came out with the tip and informed us that I knew someone at
their table.
It was none other than Charlie Kasov.
I have known Charlie for years, and we used to do many a
dreaded open mic together. He is a very funny man and overall good dude.
Apparently, they were all friends from Charlie’s alma mater Skidmore. I had
originally met Charlie when he had graduated from the daughter school, leaving
the sprawling green and ivy covered buildings for New York; where there is no
greenery or natural foliage. He had worked on John Kerry’s campaign, that’s how
long it had been. Still, it was wonderful to see him and even more wonderful
when he told me I did well. I always like being complimented by talented, funny
people.
I left there and then went on to One on One for Cary
Metromone’s party. Cary is the owner and publisher of fIXE Magazine, a fetish
magazine. I am one of two comedians ever profiled in the magazine,
the other is Margaret Cho. That is pretty cool company.
I was to perform my original songs and then perform a little
with May. I was late because the pervious gig had run over. Nonetheless, I came
to perform. There was one problem. The guy running the sound system was a
Mexican who spoke no English. Plus I didn’t have a live band so I was doing an
Ashlee Simpson. The singing portion of the show was interesting. The people didn’t
know what was going on and made the best of it with a WTF look. Nonetheless,
they did like my music. However, May was a hit. The cameras came out and they
were snapping photos. Somehow wherever she goes May Wilson always takes over
the party.
I ended up taking lots of photos, and was approached by a
man in a baby costume requesting us to be his Mistresses and asking us to
paddle him. I know the baby fetish is big in the BDSM world in some circles,
but this was lost on me. So finally I took the riding crop given to me and gave
him a beating. I would have used the paddle but I was excited about beating someone
with my own implement. So I gave him an ass whooping.
Then I was approached by two men identifying themselves as
slaves and they offered the following services: to rub my feet, to worship me,
to lick my feet, to clean my house, and the list went on. I thought about it.
While I desperately need my house cleaned because there are costumes
everywhere, glitter on my bathroom floor, and my pet mouse name Mordecai who is
magic is probably looking to renew his lease (what lease, the bastard lives
rent free) it looked appealing. However, this stranger was also wearing a
leather mask. We could work up to the cleaning because it was a big job, and
maybe I could see his face before I gave him my address.
We would start with something small like a foot rub.
So the first slave with the mask on gave me a foot rub. It
was decent, but then I was approached by a second slave who offered to do the
other foot and addressed me properly by my name, “Mistress.” Apparently he hadn’t
met my ex boyfriends who all seem to forget that name and just call me Bitch.
The other slave was superior in the foot rubbing department, and the first
slave, feeling threatened in the department of submission, went to find another
mistress. As he rubbed my feet I thought Wow! BEST FOOT RUB EVER!
I could get used to this!
Then the slave proceeded to sniff my feet which was unique.
Then he went to lick my toes. I told him I wasn’t there yet, we would work up
to that. I then got a much needed back rub out of the deal from a long day’s
work and got my poor little hands rubbed. I also took the man’s number.
I need my house cleaned, am lazy, and a maid is not in the
budget. Perhaps I will give the man a buzz.
Friday I delivered a singing cop first thing in the morning and
got a nice tip. I was tired from the marathon I had run the day before between
the telegrams and the VIP special appearance. My boss sprung this one on me
while I was jogging, which made me run to my corner store, get my coffee, and
almost trip up my stairs. I sprinted there, hoping no one would notice I had
not washed my hair from last night and it most definitely had a stroke. I tried
to disguise it best I could. If it were anyone else, I wouldn’t have run so
fast or cared so much, but I love my boss and he is true blue. And for those
that know me I am true blue to those I love and care about.
After doing the routine where I got a nice tip I went home
to take a power nap. Then it hit me, I hadn’t done a mic in sometime. While the
shows I have done as of late have been hitting, the material is tried and true.
Sure, my mics might have been limited because I was doing things like getting
paid appearances at private events, but there is something sacred about
creating and failing. While to create and achieve is coveted, there is
something about falling on your ass that is even more special. When you fall on
your ass sometimes it hurts, but you also learn something that you can work on.
Or maybe you just need to remold the clay.
Don Juan made his debut yesterday at Tino’s Chocolate and
Vanilla Open Mic. There was a lot of falling on my ass and a lot of failing. I
tried to bail my ass out by saying, “Fuck you, I have been on TV.” It is
true,my ego was tripping me. I used to hate it when comedians did that when
they tanked. It was almost a cop out. Yes, you were on TV last week. This is a
new day and a new week. You aren’t funny now. However, I was doing it. Yes, I
am an egomaniac. I will admit it, and it comes out on facebook and in my blog
more than anywhere. But that ego and those achievements come with hardwork.
Still, I had a bigger responsibility not to be so pompous and arrogant and to
take my tanking like a man.
Wait, I am a woman.
Nonetheless, there was something there with Don Juan. I
discovered some good bits and some things I could work on with my new boyfriend
in my purse. The object of getting up was to see what hit and what didn’t. So
what I have gotten fan mail from around the world and have kids telling me how
I inspire them? I still need the fall on my ass. Not everything I write is
gold. Most of it is shit. Actually, ninety eight percent. However, open mics
are like vegetables. While it gags me to eat them they are healthy and good for
me. Open mics need to be a part of the diet. Sure, I don’t always like them but
I need them. And I need to go to the ones where the people are good energy.
They let me know where new bits stand, and I can’t cut them out of my regimen
again. I can’t let my damn ego do all the talking either. Sure, I have done a
lot and have worked hard. But there is always more to learn and more work to be
done.
My ego is not my amigo. Actually, he’s my enemy. He always
gets me in trouble. My ego is a man. He is tough talking, probably from Texas,
smokes Marlboro Reds, talks when he shouldn’t and most definitely overestimates
himself.
The great part about Tino’s mic is that I was able to do
multiple sets. I tanked for the most part on the second set, but found some
gold towards the end. For the final portion of the mic we freestyled. I hadn’t freestyled
since I was a talking head online, so that was fun. People were surprised I
could do it. Much like comedy, freestyling is baptism by fire. I had people
talking shit in the chat on me as I spit my half ass not so dope (unless you
were dope sick) whack ass rhymes. Still, it was awesome. Especially when Don
Juan and I danced with Tino as he rapped in Spanish. Then when I rapped Tino
got Don Juan and he danced with my puppet as I sort of rocked the mic.
There was a show afterward, I didn’t stick around because I
was too tired. However, for the first time in sometime I had fun with what I
had done. Yes I have been on Reality TV. Yes, I have been a talking head. Yes,
I have had my music on the radio. Yes, my book is due for release in
September/October. However, Eazy-E was right when he appeared in my dream,
standup was the thing that made this possible and I had to stop being so
selfish and to get over it. Yes, there will be people who don’t want me at the
mics and are jealous that I have been on TV and might blog about my new shit.
On the other hand, I have gone places they will never go and am showing
everyone I am truly doing the work to get there. So fuck those haters.
Okay, my ego might not be my amigo but he makes me feel good
about myself. Like any man he lies.
Advil PM is like my peyote. Maybe I need to go to the desert
to get visions. Where is Jim Morrison and his Native American Guide along with
Mike Meyers? Is Timothy Leary going to make a guest appearance?
Scrap that. I paddled a grown man in a baby costume with a
riding crop. Real life is much more entertaining.
Tonight will be Coney Island where people swallow glass. I will take my actual reality thank you very much. Who needs drugs to trip when this is just my usual Thursday, Friday, and Saturday.
Love,
April